I would suggest you install the Telerik Visual Studio Extensions
that can help you in determining the assemblies your project would need. The Project Configuration and Creation Wizard
automatically selects all assemblies a specific assembly is dependent upon. Additionally, you could take a look at the Controls Dependencies
article for a reference on the needed assemblies for each control or in the respective component's Getting Started article, e.g. Getting Started with RadGridView
As to your second question, the Implicit Styling approach
requires to merge all needed resource dictionaries in your application. What this means is that you would need to add references to the assemblies from the Telerik UI for WPF suite in both your class library and WPF application and merge the resource dictionaries in the App.xaml of the app.
Let us know if you have any additional questions.
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