Hi Anne Lyon,
There are several approaches you can try:
1. Bind the width and height properties from data template to appropriate properties in your view model.
2. Use template selector to choose which template to be used for each item.
I'm attaching sample project demonstrating both solutions.
Hope this helps. Please let us know if you need more info.
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