I prepared a sample project for your case. It is possible to use groups and achieve the knockout layout. Please review the attachment.
Regarding your last question, multiple parents feature suggestion is something we will consider for future versions. Unfortunately there is no other control that you can replace RadOrgChart with and accomplish your aim.
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