This is intended behavior of the control, the idea is that once you have an insert from, the control is no longer empty. If you want to have different appearance in this scenario, you can specify it in the InserItemTemplate, initially invisible, on PreRender to check the item count in the control and if it is 0, to show this specific part of the template.
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