I tried reproducing the behavior described in your first point, however everything seems to work as expected. Would you please check this example
and let me know if I am missing something?
Regarding your second question - disabling the insertSheet method however is not supported out of the box, although removing the sheets bar should prevent the users from adding more than one sheet.
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