Hi Lyle Groome,
If main element inside your user control is grid, your User Control should strech by default. In case you experience some problems with that, you can call the static RadWindow method GetRadWindowParent in which you provide as a parameter your user control, and then add event handler to the SizeChanged event of RadWindow. Please feel free to contact me for any further assistance.
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