You indicated that the width of the headers is calculated in the AutoGeneratingColumns event.
Can I suggest using the same event to consider the width of the ColumnGroupHeader and resize the Column Headers accordingly.
Again, finding the ColumnGroupHeader with the Visual Tree helpers, won't do you any good. As I mentioned before, its width is dictated by the width of the ColumnHeaders, not the other way around.
Hope this makes sense!
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