By design when RadNumericUpDown is in ReadOnly state only its Increase/Decrease buttons look disabled.
You could change this by creating a custom Style for the NumericUpDown and make the changes in its template, please take a look at the Editing Control Templates
topic for more details on the approach.
Also if you could show us how you're expecting it to look, we will be able to provide further instructions.
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