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You can access the corresponding dataitem by getting the parent container of the textbox:
(sender as RadNumericTextBox).NamingContainer
Furthermore, you can check out the following examples for processing multiple updates on a single click:
Batch Server Update
Performing Batch Updates
I hope this will prove helpful. Please give it a try and let us know if it works for you.
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