I think that you hit a browser-specific behavior here and testing the same approach with asp ImageButtons with alt attribute values under Gecko-based browsers will produce the same result. Let me know if I am missing something obvious.
The code from the help topic will work with auto-generated edit forms mode. If you would like to specify update/insert/cancel images, define them directly through the respective GridEditCommandColumn's tag.
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