I had prepared a sample project for you, demonstrating how to implement the desired functionality. The main purpose of the sample is to demonstrate how to set the target of the dropped item. You could observe how this is achieved at client-side in the sample. In addition, you should handle the Dropped event of the RadListBox and insert the data in your database, which the RadGrid is bound to and rebind the Grid. Please find the sample attached.
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