I'm sorry, I attached wrong project. I apologize for the caused inconvenience. Please find the new attached file.
The easiest way to find the templates is to use Expression Blend - drag the control which template you need to modify, right-click it and choose "Edit Template"/"Edit a copy".
You could also find them in the themes (as you mentioned).
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