You can remove the Header of the Pane, but yes, you won't be able to drag it. However, you can edit the template of the RadPane in order to change its size, but you have to apply the style implicitly.
Could you please give us some more details what exactly you are trying to achieve. Sending us some screenshots would be very helpful.
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