Without knowing how you have implemented the disabling of the items, I might be only guessing what the cause for this behavior might be. Would it be possible for you to share some details on your implementation? It would also be useful if you paste the relevant code as a demonstration.
Additionally, you can take a look at the ComboBox Column
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