You can try to use a different approach to wrap the header text of the grid columns:
Hope this helps. Please give it a try and let me know if it works for you.
Additionally, please note that for the coming Q2 2013 release, our developers have re-builded the RadFilter control which will expose many new properties and will provide richer and much more convenient interface to be customized.
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