You can get the currently selected button using the current method():
However I am not really sure that I understand exactly what your scenario is and what exactly you are trying to achieve. Can you please create a quick sample in a jsBin (you can use this one as a reference -http://jsbin.com/katocoqu/1/edit
) so we can better understand the problem?
Thank you in advance for your cooperation.
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