I have prepared an example for you that demonstrates how to change BorderBrush and BorderThickness properties of an expanded TreeListViewRow. Unfortunately these changes are not applied to the child items, because they are not logical child objects for a TreeListViewRow as it was implemented in RadGridView.
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