There is a way to achieve the desired functionality, however, it is not quire straight-forward. You will need to use an attached behavior in order to calculate how many appointments contains each Resource for each day as well as to update the GroupHeaders. I have attached an example project to this thread demonstrating the approach, please download it and give it a try.
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