You can perform an "IsPostBack" check on the client, to determine whether to execute the resizing script or not. Additionally, you can use a flag (a hidden input on the page) which can be set from the server, to signify whether you are adding records to the grid from code behind, and when checking this flag from the client, you will know whether to execute the script or not.
I hope this information helps.
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