Hi Stephen,
Unfortunately, there is no way this can be achieved. There is an event which fires when the visible date range is changed (
DisplayDateChanged), but the grayed out dates cannot stay selected in the same month.
If we receive more clients' requests we will consider implementing it in one of our future releases.
Regards,
Konstantina
the Telerik team
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