Could you please elaborate more on your scenario ? What are the desired states that you which to implement? Probably a changes ( adding a visual states) in the default ControlTemplate of the RadTabItem are needed. Please also keep in mind that changing the default ControlTemplate is operation out of our support scope services.
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