Hello Laura Edwards,
I am sending you a sample project illustrating how to perform a command that is defined for a button in a row. In this case the command is "Delete" and it removes the item on the same row as the button.
In case that does not meet your exact requirement, we would need more details about your scenario in order to provide you with a more accurate solution.
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