To cancel the update command try setting e.Canceled = true; instead of editedItem.Edit = true; and see if it makes any difference.
Additionally, it is not suggested to have ASP:UpdatePanel in RadGrid. You can try either ajaxifying the whole grid or wrap the DropDownList in RadAjaxPanel and see if it works thus.
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