Try setting the Style as implicit style in the app.xaml like that:
The color you mention is a property of a RadPaneGroup instead of RadPane and RadPaneGroups are created dynamically when you drag the RadPanes. The only way to set a Style on that RadPaneGroup is through application theme or implicit style if you have based your dock on the Office_Black theme.
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