I believe that you extracted the default style when Office Black theme is used. In order to provide you with more specific information, please let me know which theming mechanism you use in your project - through StyleManager or through implicit themes. Also give us more details about which toggle button in the grid's template you are pointing to. Do you use only ToggleButtons in your application or you use RadToggleButton as well?
Thank you in advance,
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