This is the default behavior of the Confirm method - it shows a window with RadConfirm in it and focuses the first button (the OK button). Please refer to the demos: http://demos.telerik.com/silverlight/#Window/APC.
It might look like the first button is not focused if the Silverlight plugin doesn't have the focus at all. Unfortunately you cannot focus the Silverlight plugin using Silverlight code.
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