Hello Daniel Woodard,
SQL Server CE 4.0 is completely supported by OpenAccess. However the dialog you are seeing is a native Visual Studio dialog and there are some steps that need to be done to integrate this version of the server in the Visual Studio environment. Here is a link to an article that, I believe, will give you the required information.
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