Yes, O'Man is right, everything that is located in the website is moved to the server. However, if you prefer to use the Publish WebSite wizard, you could remove all the unnecessary assemblies prior the upload process and thus they won't be transferred to the server.
The other approach you have found out with FTP utility is also applicable.
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