Please use the new implementation for shortcuts-related scenario - RadShortcut. They allow you to get the shortcut displayed on the menu items automatically. For additional information, please refer to the following documentation article: Getting Started
I am not sure that I understand the second part of your enquiry. Could you please explan in greater detail what exactly is your scenario and what are your expectations from RadMenu? This will allow me to assist you further.
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