The "light selection" as you call it, is actually a visual indication for the focused element. Every keyboard operation is done in relation to the focused element. Thus using up/down arrows, editing, expanding and collapsing the item via the keyboard is done on the focused item.
When selecting the item you could also focus it by calling Focus() method on the appropriate RadTreeViewItem.
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