The scrollTo() method will not work for items that are not loaded in the DOM. And this behavior is in some way expected - cannot scroll to an element that does not exists. I am afraid that currently there is no workaround that I can offer to you. If you do not have a large data subset, then you can just turn off the virtualization and use the scrollTo() method freely.
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