The RecurrenceEditor widget is designed to select the checkbox which corresponds the week day of the edited day. If you create an event in Tuesday the selected checkbox will be "Tuesday" although today is Friday for instance. Check this screencast
which depicts what I mean. I believe that this is the expected behavior and it should not be changed.
To answer your question, the widget raises change event which you can wire and when it is raised to modify the widget value.
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