Since you have a WinForms application, the only way to use RadRadialMenu for WPF inside it is through the ElementHost
control ( you can check here
for more details). You can, for example, change the Visibility of this ElementHost when the button is clicked.
As to the second question - could you please explain the requirement in more details?
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