Could you please elaborate some more on your specific scenario? Exactly what do you mean by "update the item"?
I have created a sample RadGrid web site to test the described appearance. On my side everything works as expected. Could you please check out the attached application and try to distinguish the crucial differences between our projects?
All the best,
the Telerik team
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