Try setting the EnableAjaxRendering property to the DatePicker component in the RdaGrid DateTime column as described in the help topic below:
Also as the issue appear only in IE9 and not in the newer version of the controls possible reason for the issue might be in the IE9 and lower versions known limitation for the 31 style sheets.
See the information below:
I hope this helps.
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