Thank you for contacting us. The proper approach would be to edit the style of RadDataBoundListBoxItem, modify the Selected state according to your preferences and use this style as an ItemContainerStyle in RadDataBoundListBox. Please examine the attached project for further reference. Also, I'd suggest you take a look at the article below:
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