The RadCalendar's buttons can be styled by creating a modifications for the styles of the ButtonChrome which is used inside. Check the attached solution. I have added all calendar resources as well the ButtonChrome, removed the telerik:StyleManager attached property from the ButtonChrome inside the RadCalendar button and applied new Style. The style is in the buttonchrome.xaml file where the brushes for the selection states have been changed.
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