We are aware of this issue related to the clearing of the active state of RadButton under IE and Opera in the described scenario. However, our developers are currently working on tasks with higher priority so I cannot provide any time estimates for the fix. Unfortunately we cannot provide any workarounds due to the specifics of the scenario.
Note also that this is a visual glitch, that do not affect the proper functionality of the RadButton.
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