I tried to extract the default style and template for QuickAccess and managed to do this successfully with Blend 2013.
You may find a screencast (http://screencast.com/t/NWhQ6nRPw1
) demonstrating this in action and my sample project attached.
I believe the issue on your side is caused by the fact that you are referencing NoXAML binaries. Please mind that these binaries as their name imply does not contain any xaml even the default Office_Black theme is not included. More details on why we ship such dll-s can be found in this
So to visualize our controls in designer and to be able to extract any styles from them, either use XAML binaries or Merge the needed resource dictionaries in App.xaml as described in the documentation link I provided.
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