It is not possible to swap the positions for the top CommandItem and the group panel of the grid due to the specific order of these elements in the grid rendering.
However, you may consider choosing MasterTableView > CommandItemDisplay = Bottom
option along with grouping enabled for the grid. Thus the group panel will be displayed at the top and the command item will be output at the bottom of the grid.
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