I noticed that the same question has been submitted by another account in a support ticket.
Unfortunately, there is no way to hide individual totals and show others without breaking the RadPivotGrid layout. In such case your best options is to leave all totals visible. You could optionally empty the cell text in the RadPivotGrid CellDataBound event by checking if the e.Cell.Text equals a total that you do not want visible and setting the e.Cell.Text as empty string.
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