In case you are pasting a date not in the already set format the RadDatePicker assumes a correct date and set it to the date input.
In case this is not the date you want to be selected, possible approach is to handle the client OnValueChanging event, cancel it and set the value in the format you need. See the help topic below for more information on this matter:
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