I am afraid that the desired functionality is not possible with the current implementation of RadFileExplorer due to the client-side binding of the nested RadGrid.
Optionally, you can consider implementing a virtual scrolling in the way described in the following KB article:
Setup virtual scrolling in the RadGrid embedded in RadFileExplorer
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