I have updated the example for VS 2010 and SL4. This example is very old and we made major changes to RadMediaPlayer so the example needed some tweaks to work. I have attached the updated example to this post.
According to your question I believe the example is showing exactly the same functionality you are asking for. If I have misunderstood your scenario please provide some more info and we will try to help.
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