We are aware that in some cases the selected items collection is not updated. However I couldn't find that issue in the public issue tracking system so I logged it. You can vote for the fix and track its status via this link: http://www.telerik.com/support/pits.aspx#/public/silverlight/4586 .
Also, I updated your Telerik points (+1000).
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