The four resizing Thumbs (which are actually Rectangles) are located in the Diaram ManipulationAdorner.
You can edit its style and change the appearance of these rectangles. In this forum thread
you can see the ManipulationAdornerStyle
extracted. The Style is pretty much the same in WPF.
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