You can open the resulting skin and if you want the selected state to be the same as the hover state, make sure to add .RadMenu .rmSelected everywhere where .RadMenu a.rmLink:hover is specified (the VSB changes are at the end of the file, easy to be spotted). The selectors should be the same - if you have div in front of .RadMenu, be sure to add it in the other selector as well.
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