You can change the TileState of an RadTileViewItem at any time, so you can handle some event (e.g. MouseLeftButtonDown, MouseLeftButtonUp) and manually change it there.
I've attached a sample project so could you please examine it and if you have more questions feel free to ask.
All the best,
the Telerik team
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