The only reason for the loading panel to disappear could be the fact that the request has finished. I assume that it finished with a timeout exception in case of such long waiting. To verify that, disable ajax and see how it goes with regular postback, or enable script debugging for IE, or use Firebug for Firefox to better see what happens.
If this is the case, you can try increasing the page request timeout.
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