With custom edit forms (FormTemplate in this case) you do not have built-in update/insert/cancel buttons and you have to define them on your own inside the custom edit form. If you would like to use built-in buttons, consider using the auto-generated edit form of the grid with EditMode="EditForms" (default value).
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